Drunk Pastor: Not A Job Title
Life has a way of teaching us things no classroom or title can fully prepare us for, especially when facing addiction, searching for spiritual clarity, or navigating mental health struggles. After 15 years in pastoral ministry, and “hands-on” experience in addiction recovery and mental health, I personally know what it means to wreck your entire world and identity, and to come out the other side with a clear purpose and self. My work now is about using that experience to support others in finding their way forward, whether through coaching, consulting, speaking, or training.
The goal is simple: to connect in a way that’s honest, practical, and unpretentious. There’s no sugarcoating here, just real conversations, evidence-based material, and spiritual guidance shaped by years of experience and a desire to see people thrive. My background has brought me face-to-face with the complexities of human struggle, shame, and resilience. I’ve walked these paths myself and have spent decades alongside others on their journeys.
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LET’S GRAB “COFFEE”
Whether you’re interested in coaching, teaching, or custom training, let’s connect to explore how we can work together to support your journey. Reach out today to schedule a free, no-obligation conversation.
FREE SUICIDE PREVENTION TRAINING:
Let’s end the stigma around Mental Health and Suicide Prevention within Churches and Faith Communities.
As a certified QPR suicide prevention trainer, let’s break the stigma around mental health in Christian churches and faith communities together.
Every suicide is preventable, a fact we also wrestle with after one occurs. Suicide prevention is everyone’s responsibility, which is why I offer a free 30-60 minute QPR suicide prevention training for faith communities and non-profit organizations, either virtually or in person. After spending a year developing and delivering training for faith leaders across Montana, I’ve learned this is an essential part of faith communities and churches. This training is relatable, approachable, and focused on giving people practical skills to recognize and respond to someone in crisis.
For faith communities, this training will align with your community’s vision and spiritual context. For Christian churches, this honors Scripture, loves your neighbors, and respects orthodoxies. This was developed over a year in conjunction with training faith leaders so it could work within any faith tradition.
Additional training and EDUs are available upon request.
Teaching & Training
Real, passionate, and personal messages to ignite people & overcome struggles
Drawing from personal life, leadership development, psychology, addiction and trauma recovery, suicide prevention and mental health experience, the Bible, or philosophy, I provide a unique and comprehensive perspective no matter the topic.
Tailored to Your Needs: “Know Your Audience!” I promise to engage with your people where they are at. Some of my more common topics include:
- Suicide Prevention: As a certified QPR Gatekeeper Instructor, I’ve been blessed to have trained faith leaders and helped develop a curriculum on suicide prevention. It is a part of my story.
- The Bible without the Modern Life: Uncover the historical and engaging world of the Bible. Learn practical applications of biblical wisdom to navigate everyday challenges. Bring the Bible to life in ways that resonate with modern audiences, leaving them feeling informed and empowered.
- Building Resilience: Developing the skills and mindsets to navigate challenges and emerge stronger.
- The Power of Vulnerability: Understanding the importance of vulnerability in fostering trust and building strong relationships.
- Leadership Development: Equipping individuals with the tools to become more effective and inspiring leaders.
- Addiction & Trauma Recovery: Offering insights and support for those struggling with addiction or past trauma.
- Mental Health & Suicide Prevention: Deconstruct the stigmas around mental health and suicide prevention. Provide approachable strategies for promoting well-being and overcoming mental health challenges.
- Finding Meaning & Purpose: Exploring philosophical and spiritual concepts to cultivate a deeper sense of purpose.
Spark Positive Change: These presentations leave a lasting impact and ignite a spirit of growth and resilience within your audience, whether churches, faith communities, leadership teams, retreats, nonprofits, or businesses.
Addiction & Life Coaching
Intentional Guidance and Accountability for Times of Growth, Change, & Crisis.
I offer personalized coaching programs designed to support individuals in achieving their goals and overcoming personal challenges. My background in pastoral counseling, mental health, and recovery allows a safe and confidential space for clients to explore areas.
It’s About You: My goal is to help you become more of yourself and be less in your way. I can promise an empathetic and informed sounding board to work through things, like:
- Addiction & Trauma Recovery: I offer a well-informed and wholistic perspective on addiction and trauma. Additionally, as a certified QPR Gatekeeper Instructor, I’m trained to recognize warning signs of suicide and help individuals connect with appropriate resources.
- Life Coaching: Setting and achieving personal goals, dealing with stress, improving communication skills, and boosting confidence. We can provide a plan, strategy, support, and accountability.
- Leadership Coaching: Helping individuals develop the skills and confidence to excel as leaders. I bring my full background and experience to the table.
- Spiritual Growth: Providing guidance and support for those seeking deeper spiritual connection. I’m adept at navigating faith and spiritual matters with acceptance and respect, no matter your belief.
- Pastoral & Clergy Support: Offering a safe and confidential space for clergy to discuss challenges unique to their profession, such as internal conflicts of faith, ethical dilemmas, and personal sins. This support can help clergy maintain their mental and spiritual well-being and continue to serve their congregations effectively.
I am not a licensed counselor or therapist. I am an ordained minister with a lot of training, personal study, and a plethora of mistakes that make all of this possible. I offer consulting and coaching, a partner who can sit across from you as an equal. We keep things on track and accountable together. I offer different ways of thinking and living, and a plan to make change possible.
How It Works
- Step 1: Spark the Fire – Free Conversation
Let’s chat! In a no-pressure conversation, you’ll share your goals and aspirations. I’ll listen attentively and offer insights on how my coaching or speaking expertise can help you achieve them. - Step 2: Crafting Your Journey – Personalized Plan
Based on our conversation, we’ll create a customized proposal outlining specific strategies and approaches tailored to your unique needs. We’ll refine the plan together until we’re both excited and confident about the path forward. - Step 3: Action & Empowerment – Agreement & Support
Once we’re on the same page, a clear contract will be presented. This outlines our roles, responsibilities, and investment – ensuring transparency and trust. With the agreement in place, we’ll be ready to dive into the coaching or speaking engagement. - Step 4: Elevate & Empower – The Drunk Pastor Experience
This is where the magic happens! We’ll embark on our tailored journey, utilizing a structured timeline and clearly defined milestones to keep you motivated and progressing. Each session and speaking engagement will be designed to empower you with the tools and strategies you need to achieve your goals. - Step 5: Celebrate & Reflect – Debrief & Next Steps
Upon completion of our coaching/speaking engagement, we’ll debrief together. This is your chance to ask questions, share your takeaways, and discuss next steps. Together, we’ll plan for continued success, whether it’s continued coaching, implementing strategies independently, or exploring new opportunities. - Beyond Engagement – Building Lasting Connections
My commitment to your success extends beyond the end of our work together. I believe in fostering long-term relationships with my clients. I’m always happy to receive follow-up questions, offer feedback, or explore the potential for future collaborations.
